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Lunar New Year Love Story by Gene Luen Yang


Rating:

5 Stars


Themes:

Romance, Young Adult, Graphic Novel 


Thoughts:

This is surprisingly deep and very cute. The book seems like a romance and in its essence it is but it also covers a lot about different types of loss and heartbreak and in a way it also addresses different family types. Val has a very strong will and a belief in true love that’s damaged when she finds out that her family has no history of a happy relationship from her grandmother. Seeing her and her father interact with her grandmother shows an interesting dynamic with the way in which grandparents can accidentally burden grandchildren but also how much love is there. It’s also funny to see the grandmother as a complete feeder as many grandmothers are and I got to see more different food to what I’m used to. Comparing this to Les’ gigantic family gatherings with the buffet and Jae’s smaller family and more basic meals shows different family dynamics depending on who the matriarch/patriarch is. We also get to see the impact of loss in these different ways with Val and her dad dealing with the loss of her mum through their bond and Jae’s mum struggling to connect after the loss of her husband showing how easy it is for parents to do one or the other and can show teens it’s not their fault if their family is struggling in the way Jae’s is. The Lion dancing was a fun addition to the book as it is so culturally significant and the dancing itself is present in most of the crucial moments in the book such as the meet cute, the wedding performance and the Lunar New Year. The lions also added a lot of colour and fun into the story and the book itself. 


Favourite Quote:

“You will hurt your beloved. Or your beloved will hurt you. Or the world will hurt one of you and the other will suffer, simply because you’ve chosen to love. And sooner or later, the time will come for you or your beloved or your relationship to die. 

With love, suffering is simply unavoidable.”

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