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Not My Circus by Delicia Niami


Rating: 

3 Stars


Themes:

Memoir


Thoughts: 

I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily. This is a lighthearted memoir despite jumping into the gritty in the first paragraph. It’s a lovely celebration of Pride and queer love, and identity when she explores her social life in the 90s. The photos included at the beginning of each paragraph is a nice touch and I liked the chapters having a title too. However, there isn’t much detail about other traumas mentioned from her childhood but I wasn’t aware that it’s a second memoir so most  of trauma she is ‘triumphing over’ (word used on front cover) must be covered in book one so I was in the dark at points. 


Favourite Quote: 

"I realized once I moved out and began working at The Advocate that the actions you take as an individual can create a ripple effect. By embracing my identity, sharing my experiences, and standing up for my rights, I'd hoped to make a meaningful impact to a more inclusive and accepting society."

With thanks to ResilientAF LLC and Netgalley for my advanced digital copy of this book.

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